Thursday 23 August 2018

4 Ultimate reasons depicting negative traits while having conversation.



Before moving on to the reasons showing negative traits of personality you should know what actually personality is.

"Personality refers to distinctive traits embedded in a person."

We all have personality in our opinion. And, yes we do have personality because we all have different traits embedded in ourselfs.

That's why some of us are good or very good in something or the opposite.

But still most of the times we don't know how to represent ourselfs in front of someone. Representing yourself is the best thing which one can do to leave his or her presence in mind and heart of the other person.

You might ask why do I need to leave my presence in someone's mind or heart?  I agree with you because you no more need to leave your presence but your presence will automatically be left after you go through the tips mentioned below.

These are some negative traits depicting personality that you should keep in your mind, and do not fall into it's trap. So, these are:

1. Spitting while speaking

      Communicating is such a thing which can directly depict your personality. First and the last thing you should keep in mind that the person in your front should feel comfortable.
It is not that you are intentionally spitting on the person above but it should be controlled to some level.


Now, how can you manage the problem of spitting is by keeping a little bit of gap while communicating. Another part of the solution is that, you can open less mouth and speak at a slower pace. 

It's not something like becoming the voice of ghost but showing yourself calm while speaking. With this the negative trait in personality will be managed to some extend.

2. Sense of humour

    Sometimes, sense of humour becomes the point of concern. What will you feel like if someone badly put a joke in between your conversation with the third person?
Or in a situation in which someone's intervention of bad joke is not required?

Obviously, it will reflect that how bad is the sense of humour of that person. You can easily judge someone's personality by this approach.

Similarly, anyone can judge your personality if you have a bad sense of humour in the situations in which it is not required to joke upon.

So, just have that much sense to enter in the conversation and then show the humour inside you.

3. Eye contact
Some people take there eyes to somewhere else while having a conversation. When you'll be talking to them, they'll be ready to wander their eyes around. How it makes you feel?


That the other person is not interested in you and your conversation. Similarly, when you come in contact with a person, you need to keep your eyes limited to the conversationalist.

   To make it short and sweet, have you heard of 80/20 principle?  It says that if you put 20% of effort then you can fetch 80% of the result. Gain more about it at:        3 Amazing words to deal with anything in the business

 So, by just reversing the principle , you just need to make 80% of the eye contact while 20% of the time you can move your eyes.

What will happen by making 80% of the eye contact? It will make the other person know that you are interested in whatever he is talking about. He will find you as a good person to speak about anything because you are interested in what he speaks.


How he got to know that you are evenly interested in his conversation? By making eye contact with a little bit of leaning forward to make more impact on listening to what the other person is saying.

Just remember, you don't need to stare the conversationalist. That why, 20% of the time is meant to move your eyes away.

By this anyone will find you a person having cool personality to share things and to talk.

This is how with a little eye contact your personality is judged as a strong and cool one.

4. Taking up the point that, annoys the other person

Seriously, here is the point of concern guys! Sometimes the conversation becomes cold in which you loose control and feel negative. But you need to feel positive and to do so click on: How to feel positive?

 Then, you pick up the point which you know will annoy the person in front. So,  you should know that what points will annoy the other person and not to point them again and again in the conversation.

Because getting aware of the things is the best part because with awareness comes clarity of the things you don't need to do.

Just keep the conversation as warm as possible and avoid picking the points that you think will make the other person annoyed and stressed.

By following this your 4th negative trait in the personality will also be destroyed.

So, you should keep in mind to:
1. Control spitting while speaking
2.  Have a good sense of humour
3. Maintain an eye-contact
4. Avoid picking the points that may annoy the other person.

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